Emotional “NO DEAL”
In relationships we sent boundaries and a very common one is, “if my partner cheats on me it is over!”. NO DEAL.
Society supports that one, we may be shocked to hear that it has happened before we condone or justify the break up.
But what if there are other boundaries broken? Lying to your partner about having cancer? Or a partner has embezzled a business, stolen money or driven the family into deep debt.
It is no help to that person if we are too quick to judge their situation. Tread carefully with a big bag of empathy. Be thoughtful with your words at this time. There is more value to you listening rather than speaking.
Let these scenarios help you form your own boundaries and always remember there is always room for forgiveness.